I am a waitress.  I love my job; it is great most of the time.  I have Complex Regional Pain Syndrome so being able to waitress is a big deal to me since some days I can’t even walk.  I am not able to carry large trays of food because is the weight and the amount of pain that will ensure.  Today my manager carried out a large tray for me and I helped place the food down.  As she was leaving she asked, “Is there anything else I can do for you?”  The older man jokingly said,”Yeah, can we get a new waitress?  One that can carry out our food.” I was so surprised that someone could say that.  Smiling faking, I left the table and avoided them until I was less upset.  That hurt. People need to watch what they say.